Ashley Kay is the author of Ex Recovery System. Unlike most ebooks, Ex Recovery System offers a system; not just mind tricks to help you get your ex back. It is similar to other books in this genre with regards to NOT what to do when a relationship ends. Ashley pinpoints mistakes that a person always makes when their ex breaks up with them and the usual scenario is they cannot let go. Crying yourself to sleep every night, professing your undying love to your ex, constantly texting and calling them and promising the moon and the starts if they give you another chance are some of the symptoms that you are in need of counseling when it comes to the matters of a broken heart. The book specifically states that these actions drive your ex further and further away.