Passing Judgment: Praise and Blame in Everyday Life [Audiobook] by Terri Apter
English | January 9th, 2018 | ASIN: B078HWCYCN, ISBN: 168168912X | MP3@64 kbps | 8 hrs 17 mins | 228.01 MB
Narrator: Ann Marie Lee
Our obsession with praise and blame begins soon after birth. Totally dependent on others, rapidly we learn to value praise and to fear the consequences of blame. Despite outgrowing an infant's dependence, we continue to monitor others' judgments of us - and develop what relational psychologist Terri Apter calls a "judgment meter", which constantly scans people and our interactions with them, registering a positive or negative opinion.